Anonymous, a wise person once told me that, since a lot of the topics that are brought up have been discussed before, it is a great idea to do a search first just to check and see if your question has already been answered. I don't know if you're new to these forums, so I'll be of some assistance o.k.? Just go into the right hand corner of your screen and click on the word "Search". Once your in the "search" screen, type in the key words of the topic you wish to look up and you should find something. I took the liberty of doing the search for you
Just type in "Family Problem" in the Alpha Kappa Alpha forum...and TADA...there's youtr answer! Hope it helps!