I think this point brings up something really valid & interesting- girls/women are judged on their bodies and appearance FIRST.
I haven't seen a single male come on this thread & say he's too skinny, fat, tall, short, etc. In fact, Rudey is the only male who's responded so far & his point was great, IMO.
We all know if we are living healthy lifestyles or not. I could eat better than I do, and definately need to work out more. But even when I am working out regularly, I'm an average sized person. I'm never going to be a size 6. And I really don't care as long as I'm healthy. We all know when we see someone who's overweight to the point of it being a health issue or who's too skinny- the kind where their face is drawn & they look tired & obviosly aren't in the best of health. It really bothers me to see women so hung up on their appearance for the wrong reasons. Take care of yourself.. yes. That includes mind, body & spirit. It does not mean starve yourself.
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