Well I can't speak for everyone else, but I for one am dead serious when I say I wouldn't want anything bigger than a 1/2 carat. Like I said in one of my previous post, if I had anything bigger I could never wear it to work. Besides that I am honestly not into flashy jewelry. I don't even wear any jewelry at all other than my engagement ring. Oh, and my tiny little diamond stud earrings, which are REALLY tiny!