[treblk]

So sorry to hear that. Like everyone, I hope he knows what he's getting himself into.

Also, I wonder what she says to him about you and your family? If he hasn't seen the errors of her way, maybe she is trying to turn him against you all. She may use your families reactions to his/their behavior to prove her point: That you all don't like her. It sounds like she's trying her best to put a wedge on a very close family.

good luck to you and your family.