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Rayray, everybody here who is telling you that you would be disloyal to leave your local doesn't know what oath you took and what it meant to you. YOU do.
I believe in the sanctity of wedding vows, but if your husband starts sleeping with other women, you should divorce his butt and marry somebody else. I don't think that makes you disloyal or uncommitted to your second husband.
I say Rayray took an oath when she joined a sisterhood. If that sisterhood no longer exists, because the organization has betrayed the principles she joined in order to support, well, what's left for her to be loyal to? She needs to make the decision that's right for her. If the NPC chapter she's looking at decides to offer her a bid, then that's an indication that they have faith in her commitment to their organization. If they show that faith, I'm certainly not going to question their judgment.
Take some time to think about it and go where your heart leads you, Rayray. Good luck!
Ivy
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