I've been where you are. You may not be ready to do what I did, but I just said it was over. It was December 1, 2002, I had had enough. He wasn't expecting it at all, but it was something I had to do. I have yet to regret my decision.
Since that time, I've focused more on myself in more ways than one. I decided to "Let go and Let God...." I haven't been disappointed yet.
Good luck with whatever decision you choose.
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