Only you can answer that question. Ask yourself why do you want to become a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha to begin with. Make sure that your reasons for wanting to join are valid, otherwise you may be disappointed.
Just because we are members of the same sorority does not automatically make us best friends. When I attended basketball games or ate in the cafeteria, I didn't always sit with my sorors because I chose to sit with my friends who were not members of AKA. When I passed them in the hallways or the sidewalks, we didn't always skee-wee, embrace or wave at each other. We exchanged pleasant smiles sometimes or held up a pinky instead.
Other than my sorors not doing the things you would consider sisterly, tell us about the things they have done that is right in your eyes. What about the events/activities they sponsor on campus? What contributions have they made to the community?
You must remember that Alpha Kappa Alpha goes beyond those memebers on your campus. It is a lifetime committment. It's not about who sits where on the bleachers. We all had lives before AKA. However, we all share common goals.
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