[33girl]

I have to agree with archangel.

It would be one thing if you had just started pledging and dropped...or if you transferred to another school. But you are going to be on the same campus and have to see those people you were sisters with for two years, no longer being your sisters. Plus there will likely be people if you would join the NPC sorority who would be distrustful of you - after all, you dumped your local, what's to prevent you from dumping them?

All sororities grow and change, especially in their first years. If you look at the histories of the NPC's, there was often LOTS of debate on going national, expanding, changing the focus etc. I'm sure there are some ASA's who weren't happy we went NPC.

It is getting near the end of the year and you might just be feeling burnt out and not close enough to the younger girls yet....give it some time. If it's becoming an issue of half the sorority wants to stay local and half wants to go national, you all need to sit down and figure it out together.