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I don't know if it's impossible to get a bid as a class other than the freshmen. I know there were girls that rushed again as sophomores and it seemed like they all found their home, and there was a junior who rushed because the previous year she was inelegible because she was a RA, but I don't think it's very prominent. I know last year I felt so out of place being a sophomore but my freshmen year my rho chi group was half sophomores so then I felt out of place again.
I guess I'm just realllly scared if it's a big let down again. I'm one of those people that when I get excited about something I think about it a lot and devote a lot of time to it and that just makes the rejection ten times worse ya know?
I guess my real question is, at all the rush, informal or what not how many of you have seen girls who had been there before? Did you look down upon them? I know that seems harsh to say, but I mean did you feel bad for them or something? OR did you think to yourself, wow that's a girl with courage and dedication to try again?
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