I feel your pain as a new single person, even though I was barely with the guy. Heck out of all the guys I've dated I could add up all the months and I still don't equal a year. SO I've never dated anyone long term and it sucks. I am going against what a lot of people have said, but that is because I feel that for those of us that really want to be with someone and want to be moms it is more painful to be single than for those that like being single and those that are focused on other things. But I think 19 is too young to get married. I'm 21 and I have changed since being 19. Plus it is more fun to be single on you 21st birthday anyway.
My brother is 19 and married and it is hard!! They barely make ends meet and my brother works 12 hour days comes home and takes his wife on errands since they only have one car. Then they spend time with their son. So they never get to just enjoy life. They are happy, but they'd probably be happier if they had waited.
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