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The way I handled my situation is that I did talk to the girl about it. She did not receive my concerns well and I assume she continued to do whatever she wanted to. The difference in our situations is that she was not a close friend of mine so I didn't have very much to lose by telling her what I thought and didn't mind that it meant we wouldn't be friendly.
You have said you are very close to this girl, and if you are going to preserve that friendship you will probably have to say how you feel eventually. Just don't expect her to "get it" because I don't think she will.
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