I totally hear what you are saying. I feel, though, to others, this situation seems petty and stupid but it does bother me. I didn't even mention in my previous post that she does still wear shirts with letters on them. And, when we are out, like at a bar, she often refers to me as her "sorority sister." Though I think of this girl as a sister in general, she is not my sorority sister and just confuses me even more as to how she can say that and then say mean things about AOII. I know I should talk to her about this, but I honestly don't feel like she will fully understand how upsetting her actions are to me. I think I just need some time away from her to really think about things.
Thanks for sharing your situation with me. I'm sure this is not a new topic by any means, but I wonder how other people have handled it.
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