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Yeah, he knows birthdays are important to me. We've talked about this several times, b/c he hates it when people make a fuss over him, but he makes fun of me because "I need that 8 AM phone call from my friends wishing me a happy birthday." So he knows. And we've talked about it b/c my point is, I do not want you to buy me things, I just want a phone call and a card. He knows this, he's had it spelled out for him b/c on valentine's day I didn't hear from him until like 7:30 that night.
I agree that communication is really important, but that bothers me even more because we HAVE talked about this so many times.
And i don't like making him sound like a bad BF, b/c he really is good to me. Great to me. But on special occasions (anniversaries, birtdhays, V-Day) he just refuses to do what people expect of him- he calls it being cheesy, i call it common courtesy.
Whatevs. I'm sad, not pissed. I'm having a totally great day otherwise so that's it.........and the day isn't over, right???
Thanks everyone for your kind words.
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