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I think one thing that men get mad at us ladies about is the whole "mindreader" confusion that causes situations like this. We have to be clear with our guys about what we want and need. You've been going out for a year. You should be at a place where you can be honest with each other...
I agree with what everyone has said so far...Wait until the night is over. Also, are birthdays usually a big deal to him? If not, it's not personal. I know that birthdays were a HUGE deal in my family, so I make a HUGE deal out of everyone else's b-day and get a bit hurt when someone forgets mine...
The only reason I would get mad is if he dismisses your feelings or accuses you of making a big deal out of nothing, after you have CALMLY explained why you are upset about his nonchalant attidtude towards your special day ...THEN, I'd be mad b/c he is not hearing the words nor is he listening to you. If you come at him mad, he'll only hear and see the anger...
I speak from experience...
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