I only have one month left to my freshman year..but luckily I've met quite a few sorority women in my major, mostly upperclassmen, but I really looked up to them in the beginning so they've been a big influence in my decision to rush.
To be honest I've never thought of going to all their rush parties to begin with, but you all are right, I might be missing the group thats just right for me!
From what I remember from friends who were elgible to rush last Fall some sororities had interest parties before rush started, altough it may have been during too. I will definitely go to these to find at least how they operate.
Thanks again guys! You've given me some important things to think about!