Thanks everyone for your responses. I just want to clarify things a little better.
At the beginning of the pledge period the NMC's were given a typed out calender of events. Due to some conflicts a few things were changed. Actually I think it was only one date. Since then the NMC's question everything everything we give them. They will be told something three times, but then the day of that activity they call three different people and make a different excuse to each person about why they don't know it or something like that.
As for the respect aspect, they have no concept that we are actives and that we have been through the same education process that they are doing now. The way they come off is that they think we should bend to them all the time. Yes we need to make compromises and stuff, but there have been things that were heard them saying that do not show any sisterhood at all. Even they NMC's do not get along, some that really want to be in the sorority are getting left out by others who were friends before joining.
It's hard to explain because I don't really know how much I can say. So I'm sorry if its all confusing.
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