Whenever you go out on a date with a new guy or visit him/have him to visit you.....make sure that you give at least two of your friends or family members:
1) his full name
2) a physical description
3) his address (at least the side of town that he lives on)
4) his place of employment
5) the make/model of his vehicle (it wouldn't hurt to tell his license plate number either, but that's only if you are able to get it without having to ask him for it

)
Also..... when the date is over, call a friend or loved one to let them know that you made it home safely or whatever.
I know that I may sound paranoid but, with the increase in date rape, kidnapping and even MURDER

, you
MUST let someone know where you are going and who you are going with.