I would talk to them about it. Have your New Member Educator sit down and tell the new girls that their irresposible behavior / mistakes with dates and information had hurt the feelings of some of the sisters. Say that you really want to build a friendship and put on fun activities that the whole chapter will enjoy. Say if they are unclear about some things, to ask. Make them a better calendar to clear up any confusion. Just tell them you expect sincerity and politeness, jsut as the sisters do from eachother. Don't mention kicking them out. See what the heartfelt talk will do, and take it from there. You never know what was a mistake or a bad week. I wish you luck!
-M
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