[sigmadiva]

Well, I don't know if this woman was a perp or not, but here goes.

I was walking down the hall at school (I'm in grad school, no greek chapters here) and this woman noticed me with my SGRho shirt on. When she saw me she said she was a sorhor too. I was really excited to meet her, so I started talking to her. I eventually got around to asking which chapter she was initiated into and she could not remember. I then asked her which school she went to (re: the school would indicate which chapter) and she could not remember her school!!!!. I smiled and ended the conversation quickly. Luckily I did not tell her any Sorority stuff.

This is not an official pratice, but I have a sorhor who immeditaly works into the conversation the question of which chapter/region/etc the person belongs to in order to determine if she is talking to a sorhor or perp. One thing that has been true for every Sigma I've met is that as soon as we have identifed one another as a Sigma, then we greet each other with the official hand shake. My sorhor mom has not been active for years, but she still remembers the hand shake.

With as many meetings/Regionals/Boule's that each org has you should start to run into the same people, or at least meet people who know of other people. And since most people like to walk down memory lane about what happened at past meetings and Boule's, they should know something.