sf, i remember back when folks on this board were getting checked left and right for their inappropriateness. i too wondered why but i realized that the bottom line is that me along with the other interests on this board want what you and the rest of your sorority sisters have, PERIOD. so don't bite the hand that feeds you. this forum and others like it are a luxury and not and expectation. we may not like the way some folks provide us information and advice, but the fact that it is offered is a blessing.
i believe that the moderators have done an excellent job in keeping the forum at a certain level and providing enough information to help new folks navigate this forum effectively. ideal08, some people just don't get it yet. there is a manner in which you do things. this is life. folks want to accomplish things on their own terms but they want to step over other people and be rude to get there and then want to be full of sweetness and light when you call them out on things. other folks simply don't care and wish to start drama--incidentally, i think a full moon is coming up.
like i said earlier, i believe that you and the other moderators do your job's effectively so that there is no need to engage in any type of banter with anyone. forums here are run a certain way--PERIOD, END OF DISCUSSION-if you don't like it, peace out!!!
it's like what prettynpearls said, don't give folks the satisfaction.
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Originally posted by Wonderful1908
Sorors and Sf's,
I think one thing we have to remember about these people who come and "show out", disrespect members, question advice or comments of members and refuse to use common sense are one of two things truly confused on the level of discretion and honestly know no better or in most cases under the belief that the internet allows them to "cut the fool". I can rememeber being a Sf on greekchat and sometimes seeing members make comments to Sf's I thought at the time were rude and inappropritae (now I see why as an AKA), and other sf's and I would email eachother like what is her prob she needs to get it together. Notice I said email we would never have broadcasted or questioned behavior in a thread! For those of us who have been on greekchat for a minute (a couple of years) remember when it was out of control. People getting checked left and right asking dumb questions, insulting sorors, etc. The moderators have done an excellent job on regulating these forums that represent the black sororites and fraternities. Now to keep it real, as Cedric the Entertainer would say "I wish one of these sf's would try this foolishness with some sorors in real life" I think these girls dream about all the things they wish they could ask and say and live their dreams out over the web. Sad, but what can you do when someone wants something you have so bad they have to make themselves look like an IDIOT on the web?
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