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I have to agree with what's already been said.
Just because this fraternity might not have the best reputation on your campus doesn't mean that they have the same reputation at your sister's cousin's campus. Besides that, you said that she doesn't like them for PERSONAL reasons....well, these guys, should her cousin join, will be his brothers, but her personal reasons shouldn't affect the way she views the national organization as a whole.
In the end, the decision is his to make...she can either choose to support him or not, but it would be best if she could put aside her personal feelings if it's what will make him happy.
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