I thought I was the only one feeling this way. I was on another forum and this interested person asked a question about something. I felt like she was digging "too deep." Her own sister was a soror, so she claimed and did not provide her with the information she needed. So I'm like Akatude, if you cannot get the info from the library and other RELIABLE resources then it is off limits. This chick and others responded thought that I was wrong, like I was not an AKA. Those other interested parties said they would give her the info she needed, since I did not help. The attitudes are horrible. NO RESPECT for us at all! In my post I said in 91 we did not have the internet and various forums to get info. Plus, when I was initiated, there was NO WAY that our big sisters would tolerate the attitudes from those interested. But the thing is back then, I WOULD NOT have responded to those AKAs in such a matter. It really trips me out! To this day, anyone who was initiated prior to me, I see her as my "big" sister! I would never disrespect that! Some people just don't get it.
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