Soror Anydaynow, that was well said. Daruler, some people have a fear or dislike of things they don't understand.
If there is a graduate chapter in your town, find out some of the things they have done to help improve your community, and point it out to your mother. If you know an older soror whose wisdom and knowledge you think your mother will respect, arrange a meeting. If you know of a pastor in the community who is an active member of a BGLO, seek their help as well. An associate pastor in my A.M.E. church is currently the president of one of our grad chapters in town. She does it all.
I understand that your mother's opinions mean a lot to you because what our family thinks (especially our moms) has always played a major role in our lives. However, you do have the right to make your own decisions. If AKA is what you want, then go for it. You don't want to ask yourself years later "what if..." and have regrets.
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