[alfuzzxi]

I'll try to explain what we do as best as possible. All of the sisters are standing together in a circle and the new members are in the circle. There will be a sister in the circle with the newmembers. That sister will bring a newmember forward and have her close her eyes. The sister will spin the new girl around in a circle( giving the big sis time to enter the circle) when the new member opens her eyes someone pretending to be her big sis is in front of her. The sister standing in front of her then reads a cute little poem or something to the new member. It normally ends with something like turn around to meet finally meet your big sis. She turns around and there is her big sis. Then the big sis will give her a pink rose (our flower) Then the big sis takes her little sis into the circle and then it's the next person's turn. Sometimes it won't be the big sis standing behind her. Each big sis wil think of something different. The poem may end with a final clue and tell the little to look in the circle for her big sis and the big sis will be standing in the back with a pink rose. I hope I explained it ok.

We all love the way we have big sis revealing, but we are a bit concerned that it may appear to have any form of hazing. ( making them stand in the middle, making them close their eyes waiting for their big sis.) It is all really innocent but we would never want to get in trouble with our headquarters. What do you think, does it sound ok or should we find a way to change it?