thank u for responding...
as i said in the beginning, i have read old threads but i wanted "new" perspectives and more personal to fit my specific situation, second, i was told by a member (older) to know history do research also by every other AKA i have talked to! as for AKA being in my heart that is something i wll be the judge of for the time being! i know AKAs dont own the color pink but if i came up to you in pink from head to toe and everyday you saw me i had on pink and you just happened to see my apartment, how would u react?