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Well, I can see how the mistrust has damaged her name with you ladies. On the other hand, have you thought to look at the reason for the lies? Maybe she feels like she has to lie to you ladies inorder for her to be accepted by you all. Some people are wierd like that. Maybe if someone were to talk to her and explain to her, " We'll like you for who you are, you don't have to try to impress the hell out of us." Believe me it works. Some people feel like they have to make themselves look better when they're the ones in the spotlight.
I know a guy like this. I had a feeling he might have been a dork in high school and maybe his first year in college. After being in Gainesville for a long time he ended up becoming a promoter for most of the clubs there. In time, he ended up becoming well known by almost everyone in G-ville who went to a club or bar. Eventually he ended up owning several clubs. When we first started hanging out I didn't think much of him except that he was cool to have around when we were on our narcotic binge late at night......After knowing him for a long time I eventually realized the reason why he did drugs. When he did the drugs it made him feel cool to be hanging out with us and other people. While we were doing whatever it was we were doing, he would always tell us about how he had this thing going on and how he had this planned in the future and how this club was going to be opening real soon. Hell, even I was astonished by some of the stuff he said he had kickin. Well, come to find out some of the stuff was true.....but only a little. He did own a several clubs but also owed a lot of people money and drugs.........now he's down in Miami selling street pharmaceuticals AND being part owner of a new club in South Beach.
My point is, she's probably doing it to try to fit in. if you still feel like there's hope....try talking to her and telling her she doesn't have to do stuff like that. If she tries to act like she's not doing that....just tell her to shut up and whether or not she admits it....you know the real reason why she's doing it. Believe me, it'll sink in.....
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