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Originally posted by AlphaSigLana
I feel like I constantly bitch at him bc he doesn't compliment me, doesn't spend alone time with me etc so does this mean our relationship is doomed?
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If you bitched at me constantly, I wouldn't spend time alone with you either.
Are you kidding me?
Look at it like this - you've been 'going out' for almost 10 weeks - that's nothing, in a realistic sense. Also, this time has been "distance" relationship, making it even less than that. So why would you expect to suddenly take the place of his friends?
Simply put - they were there first, and if you continue to bitch at him, they'll be there last.
It sounds like you have horribly unrealistic expectations of this boy. It also sounds like you want him to capitulate, without you having to change at all - ie "give me what i want, you bastard, or you're an insensitive, incommunicative asshole" . . . that sounds fair huh?
Bottom line - don't expect anything unless you ask for it, and are willing to give the same in return . . . and NO, you're not doing that right now, although you think you are.