I think some people do relate Kappa Sweethearts with the undergraduate organization. I recently went to a Kappa ball and clearly saw the difference. I was a Kappa Sweetheart in undergrad (we were called Diamonds back then)and I never had a conflict with sororities. It's all in how you carry yourself. There were undergraduate sweethearts who took it upon themselves to "step" and do other things(such as signs and calls...). Those things can be an insult because it can be percieved as disrespectful and mimicking. To me, the key was to have an "air" that I was there for assistance only, and that Kappa Diamond was not a sorority and it was never placed on a pedestal above AKA. I think everyone at school knew where my heart was. As long as you maintain that frame of mind, you should be ok.
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