[determined one]

Hello ladies of Alpha Kappa Alpha Inc.I am still on my quest to become a member of such a wonderful organization.Last week a Delta told me that she had no respect for Kappa Sweethearts I was surprised since I will become a sweetheart also. I say this because my husband is a new member of Kappa Alpha Psi.As I am told by older kappa men sweethearts are respected and loved by Kappa men they play a big role in organizing events and they also do community service. I realize that they are not a sorority. My question is why are they looked down on. Most people think of them as sluts but I think they are confused with undergrads who just whant to be down.The Kappa Sweethearts that I am around are 30 and up and they are married to Kappa men they arent just girlfriends. I just wanted some of your ideas. If I do some day become a member of your beloved sorority I would not have a problem with being a Kappa Sweetheart also. Alpha Kappa Alpha is what is in my heart. The title of Kappa Sweetheart will never take precedence.Your replys are appreciated.