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Ok, I agree with those who have said that it is probably not going to get any better. Since you're only 2 1/2 months into the relationship, now is the time to break it off if he's not making you happy. You should be happy in a relationship, not constantly frustrated because the person isn't being what you would like them to be.
That said, I would like to say that *sometimes* a guy can start off this way and then later change. When my fiance and I started dating, we lived 3 hours apart. There were times when I got so frustrated with his seeming to not care that I almost did break up with him. Even now I wonder why I never did. But now we live together and we're happily engaged, and I know that he loves me very much. In our situation, he pulled away before because of the distance.
So now that I've given two sides to the issue, I think it's clear that only you can decide what's best for you. But it seems to me that if he doesn't make an effort to spend time with just you when you ARE able to see each other, then this isn't a relationship that's going to work out.
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