[Mooch279]

you make a good point, and i agree its none of our business who a brother falls for. but dont you think it is our business who wears our letters and represents the fraternity? i have heard of chapters voting a weather or not someone can be lavaliered. right now my chapter doesn't do this but looking back now their have been case where we all (my chapter) smack ourselves in the head because one of the brothers lavaliered a girl that most of the brothers couldn't stand and didnt want representing the fraternity on campus. not b/c of how she looked but how she acted.