Do what everyone has said. Go through formal, meet all the houses and find the place that is home for you. All are great organizations (not that I'm biased...
) You really never know till you look at them all and meet the women in each group. Read some of the Rush stories on here, there are a lot of women who have found homes in a place they never would have thought to look first. They are happy and at home, look for that!
Good luck!
Which school are you at...if it is ok to ask?
Tau love and mine
Lil E