Hi Ladies of Alpha Kappa Alpha,
I am OneSavvyDiva's friend, I decided to post under her name to be discreet. I thank you ladies for all of your advice

. I knew what I had to do, but like nAKA2nv said, it is easier said than done. I believe I can forgive and be cordial for the sake of my quest to AKA, (and because it's the Christ-like thing to do. I cannot go into details of what the circumstances are, but believe me they are not trivial or childish, and I cannot see myself getting to close to this person again. Anyway, like I said, I just wanted some affirmation that it is possible to survive line w/o being on the best of terms with one of your ls's. Thank you sooooo much.
Much Love
Me
[This message has been edited by onesavvydiva (edited March 14, 2000).]