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OK I have to disagree on the parents thing.
Only YOU know, and maybe your best friend, what is right for you.
my mom LOVED my ex-husband. LOVED HIM., Could not encourage enough me to marry him, called me 24 hours a day saying do it he's wonderful. And even tho my own gut said not to do it, I thought mom must know something I didn't. So I married him. Guy turned out to be an abusive prick.
my mom LOVED my ex boyfriend K. LOVED LOVED LOVED him. I didn't.
My mom is not too thrilled w mr. amycat. She doesn't even know him, actually, but she's made this decision. And I've never been happier, never been treated better in my life.
You've got to do what you know is right. Your parents don't have to live your life, YOU do.
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