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Originally posted by Lady Pi Phi
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There is also a difference between being assertive and being a bitch. If you're assertive you can speak your mind in a tactful manner, and listen to otehrs opinions while strongly sharing yours. You're a bitch when you don't care about anyone else, and people will let you have your way if it will shut you up. Get what I'm saying?
This is not a slam at anyone, just a general sentement.
If someone really is the "shit", they don't have to say anything, because everyone already knows. [/B]
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Assertive is just a term proper women/men use rather than it's foulish cousins.....bitch/dick. You can be assertive and still seem elegant. You say bitch, and your like every other common female.
Bitch can have many meanings. It can be the words used to describe someone or something. It can be used to describe an attitude, which is what you choose to describe bitch. Your definition of bitch and mine vary. What you view as bitchy, I call childish.
In any case.....My shit does make sense and I hope you understand that now.