The fact that you are afraid of hearing something you don't want to hear, should tell you something.
In these situations, the only way you'll ever know is if you ask. Just b/c you don't want to hear it doesn't mean you shouldn't hear it. One way or the other, you'd be better off knowing now. What if he still has strong feelings for you but is seeing other girls b/c he thinks you guys are friends??? It would suck, but it's kinda what you agreed to, since you decided to be friends. or it's possible that he still feels strongly for you and isn't going to see anyone else until you guys wind up together.
Either way, you need to talk to him.
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