Age and marriage are a factor when rushing; however, enthusiasm for your favorite sorority will overcome that. While rushing, emphasize how your maturity and experience can only improve any sorority you join. Focus on your most positive attributes. More important than grades, leadership experience, or marital status is your dedication and availability to your sorority. Don't go around telling every sorority that they are your favorite sorority, the soroities talk to each other and know which rushees are insincere. I suggest having a completely positive attitude. Say "All the soroities on campus seem fantastic, I feel great dedicating myself to worthy organizations like the ones I've seen in rush. On the last day though make sure you express to the besat sorority that they are you favorite house, and say that they are the only house that you will join (to the sorority and the panhellenic). That is the only way you can be gaurenteed the house you want.