Monique,
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Other than the membership chairperson, do you know any of the other members? If you feel comfortable calling to request information about their activities, then do it. At least she knows you are interested and that you not being initiated as an undergrad is beyond your control. Ask if there are any activities you may participate in as a volunteer. For example, one of the grad chapters here in my hometown offers after school tutoring two days a week for two hours at a church. Something like that could allow you to volunteer your time and get to know the members. I hope things will work out for you.
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