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Originally posted by SSS1365
I can see your mom's point, but I look at it this way. If I were in this situation and didn't tell my friend, but she found out later that I had known the whole time... wouldn't she be mad at me for not telling her? Just a thought...
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To answer your question...yes, I would be upset with her.
In fact, this sort of thing happened to me.
I was in a relationship for seven years. We had a great, unique relationship. Somewhere along the line things went wrong (or maybe I was delusional the whole time
) and he came to me to tell me that he was seeing someone else. Well, when I finally told my "friends" at work, one girl in particular had told me that our other friend had seen something suspicious seven months earlier and told her about it. They decided not to say anything to me. I was extremely unhappy about the fact that they kept this knowledge from me. And indeed it changed the way I looked at them. I do not consider these two individuals my friends. In fact, my intuition tells me that at least one of them, if not both of them, took pleasure in having known about it for so long and letting me think everything was great.
I realize every situation is different. You have to know your friends in order to make the right decision. In my case, I would always want to know. And my one friend knows / knew this.