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I have this friend that I met here at college four years ago. I swore up and down (to myself) that he was gay when I first met him. Then I asked a friend that knew him, and she said he wasn't.
If you don't have that opprotunity you may want to see how he reacts in situations. Maybe go to a gay bar/club together to dance and see how he feels prior to going and while there. Note: don't go there alone. That's too weird.
Um, you could try bringing up sexuality in conversation. Act like you were discussing the issue in a class or with your friends or something and see what he has to say. Although he may not come out and say it, it may give you better clues.
Whatever you do, just be careful the way you phrase things if you ask. Certainly, as people above mentioned, you don't want to offend him or piss him off. That'd be the worst thing you could do.
I wish it was cut and dry. Good Luck!
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