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i've read this thread for awhile....your situation sucks.
if i was the guy, i would not want you to ask me---at all. it would most likely make me question your feelings and thoughts about me if we did start a relationship, and i would honestly feel like crap. if you notice things, then most likely other people have too, and most likely those people have asked him. that in its self can hurt to have people repeadly asking you about something that is very personal. you can never really know if he is gay...only he knows, and honestly it is up to him to decide how he will live his life. anyway, i think you should put yourself out there. tell him how you feel about him, regardless of the gay thing, and see what happens. if he feels the same about you then you have the possibility of a new relationship. if he dosent, and isn't gay, big deal! i'm sure he isn't going to stop talking to you. if he is gay he will either come out to you, or he will just tell you he does not share your feelings, but i'm sure he will still be your friend. hope some of tis helped.
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