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Most guys in this situation would be pretty chill about something like this coming up. I think to some extent every guy is attracted to his female friends.
He enjoys spending time with you, take that and run with it. Most guys wouldn't put their trust and confidence with someone they didn't value and respect. He respects you, because in many ways, he juxtaposes what he values in himself through you. You're his reflection, the good that you bring to him is what he wish he could reiterate in himself. Now, if you look at same- gender friendships you'll notice in most cases that the level of attractiveness is even. From what i've seen, this applies to male-female frienships as well. Therefore, your asthetic qualities are probably on par with the type of girl he looks for, or dates. After all, why are you freinds if you don't enjoy the same likes & dislikes. I can't suggest how to propose a move on this guy. I know for sure that he's probably considered this (and seeked help through a chatboard maybe?), and would definitely not take offense to any straightforward moves on your part.
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