I'm with Deltabrat on this one. Why do you refer to the behavior you described as being "ghetto"? I know unrefined, uncouth women who grew up in the suburbs. I also know sophisticated, well-versed women who grew up in the so-called ghetto. I understand that the term "ghetto" has come to be synonymous with any behavior that is distasteful, but I still cringe when I here it. To me, it's as worse as using the "n" word to refer to one of your friends. Maybe you should rephrase your question and rethink the implications of what you're asking. I think you just discovered one of the "no-no's" on your own.
[This message has been edited by SkeeBunny (edited July 11, 2000).]
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