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i think a lot depends on the campus and the chapters. here, it's a big deal for a guy to give a girl his letters. i know a couple guys in Phi Tau who got in big trouble because they let their girlriends sleep in bid day shirts before they'd been lavaliered. but, Sigma Nu guys can give letters to as many girls as they want. my boyfriend used to wear his ex's ZTA shirt and no one in her house ever said anything of it. i have a friend who is a DZ at Ohio State and i saw her wearing a frat's letters and i was like "oh, are you lavaliered?" and she just laughed and said it was no big deal down there to just wear letters of your friends in a frat. i think letters are special to people and you have to exercise discretion before letting others wear them, and i think it would just be plain weird to have a girl in ABC wear letters of XYZ or whatever, but i think it depends more on the campus or chapter's interpretation of wearing others letters/badges/whatever.
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