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Originally posted by ktsnake
Why not just ask the guy? If he's not you'll both get a good laugh out of it. If you go around trying to manipulate situations to try to find the truth... well that's just kind of underhanded and manipulative.
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Wouldn't some straight guys be extremely offended if a girl just asked them if they were gay? I wouldn't come right out and ask, just for fear of pissing him off if he ISN'T gay. Like, if someone asked me if I was a lesbian, I'd be really upset because I'm not! I'd feel really insecure about myself from then on because I'd start wondering what it was about me that made people think that. I mean, I don't know... that's just my assumption. Personally I would take the approach of asking him what kind of girls he dates. That way he won't be offended, and you can probably figure out from his answer whether he's gay or not.