Do you know why she made the decided not to continue? If it was for reasons outside of the sorority (ie, family or medical) she will probably respect the sorority enough to not tell people what she learned. Just make sure you talk to her about it and let her know how important it is to not reveal your sorority information. Hopefully she will understand. As far as letting the big sister know, again it depends on her reasons. I would probably let her know when only a few close people are around. The chapter will know soon enough and questions will start flying. I would recommend letting her sis know when it is the two of you and maybe one other person. Pizza, ice cream, and/or chocolate seems to cheer most people up. Have a fun social event like a pajama party or movie marathon (or both). Good luck!
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