Is it good advice to say the generally accepted thing?
I am not criticizing, but we all give the standard advice in these situations:
Too young to be invovled, long distance relationship . . play the field etc.
I used to also, but as I get older I wonder how good that advice is? Maybe when you are in love you should just ride with it and invest a lot of effort in making it work?
After all in other threads we give advice on maintaining long distance relationships. In other threads we all ooh and ahhh over a candle pass which means some 20-21 year old is getting engaged to get MARRIED.
So if 18-19 year old shark in skirt is too young to be in a committed relationship with her childhood sweetheart (which if she were to end up with him would be a Lifetime movie) Then shouldn't we be telling these women that want to get married at 20-21-22 to run away?
And shouldn't we be telling those women that want long distance relationships to find someone to love that is closer and therefore can fulfill more of their needs without lonliness and pain?
Just curious
