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This obviously varies from GLO to GLO, not just in written policy, but in chapter level usage as well.

Generally speaking though, Adrienne, fraternities tend to be a bit more lenient about this - the acceptable female wearers are not just fiancees and wives, but usually also include mothers, daughters, sisters and housemothers.

Also, Zephyr: I hear what you're saying, but [policy or no] personally I would have a hard time judging what a mother chooses to give to her daughter, or what of a deceased mother's posessions a daughter chooses to wear.

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