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It's so much easier said that done to "move on". I, too, went to college with my high school sweetheart and then ended up breaking up with him. It was the best decision I ever made although it hurt a lot at the time. If you are a freshman or a sophomore, use your time being single to have fun. Go out on socials, meet new guys, have fun with your sisters. Do all this before your classes start getting more major-intense and your liver starts to hate on you. You'll learn so much more about yourself being single than you ever will being with him. Being single will give you a chance to find out exactly what you're looking for a guy and go searching for those qualities. That way, your next relationship will hopefully work out. DON'T visit him. I know you probably have an intense urge to visit him in hopes that he'll see what he's missing and take you back. To put it bluntly, he'll probably get very annoyed that you visited him after he told you not to and your chances of even being friends with him will quickly diminish. To take your mind off the urge to visit him, make plans with your friends. Hang out with your sorority. Go home and visit your family over the weekend. Anything to keep you busy. Most of all: don't talk to him for a while. It'll just make it so much harder on you. In a few weeks, it'll hurt a lot less. Good luck.
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