[valkyrie]

Annie, after thinking more about this, I would guess that you already know what the right thing to do is here. By "ignoring" him for a few months, I think you already decided that you have a lot of living to do while you're in school and don't need to be tied down by a relationship with someone who isn't in the same town while you are so young. I think you already know that you're too young to be tied down already, and were probably taking the first steps away from this relationship. Now, however, that he is drawing back from you, maybe it makes you a little afraid because you realize that, although it's what you want, you don't have as much control over the situation as you originally thought -- although it was, at first, you moving away from him, now he is moving away from you as well. Losing control, to whatever extent, is always at least a little scary.

Of course, I could be full of crap, but it is clear from the posts you make on greekchat that you are a confident young woman with a ton of amazing qualities. Move on and really enjoy your college years.